Sunday, September 23, 2012

Love, the purest of all.


Oh love why art thou attached?
so even with your beauty,
now you're portrayed wretched!
Why don't you teach to even smile at defeat!
Why can't you be happy, that you reached?

At every junction,
you bring your condition
if just the act is so worthy,
why in the world demand loyalty?


why can't you be simple,
why the need to fluctuate
over love why am i told to prefer hate?


Why do people in you cry?
why is there a need to lie?
why can't you  just be,
pure as the core of my heart
why do you warn me,
to never start?

why should i keep a distance from you
I can feel your beauty
yet i fear you
they say i'll be cheated
yet again i want to be near you

Why don't you laugh
even after being cheated
you were noble
so can you be defeated?

why can't i have an open heart
why do they put you under dark
i loved to love
so why should a betrayal leave me hurt?

Why shouldn't i trust
since when is saving myself a must
lets die if the need arises
lets put the fear in our sacrifices

life is indeed dark without love
its attachment that we should shrug
its not about dying alone
but you tell me can sharing be done alone?

Let me smile at the simplicity,
lets always admire the beauty
lets love like there is no tomorrow
then i promise you there won't be any sorrow

why do you give up on love
why do you give in to fear
my heart is pretty strong
i know it'll bear

let her cheat if she wants to
but we won't stoop so down, too.
We were gracious as ever
so lose my grace now? Never!


You made your choices,
you had your vices
but now i'm tired of the bullshit advices


For what she does,
she doesn't realize,
but you my friend are the guiding light
always leading, always bright!

Oh world, i still have hope!
my heart still isn't that broke,
if anything, it has become stronger
and that will make me love longer.

i still stand with style
i don't let fear be my guide
oh i might have fallen
that's all right,
but still i dare to take the flight!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Love.. yea rite!

This one is for the lucky one’s who are in love, the special one’s who feel they are falling in love, and the extraordinary one’s, who are in search of love, and if you fall in none of these categories , you are up for a fun ride.

Everyday someone or the other is blabbering about falling in love. The use of ‘blabbering’ makes my stance pretty clear. Since the time we were little kids we have been witnessing those love struck couples, we attended many functions which were held to celebrate the marital alliance, some of them extra special ‘coz they were termed ‘love’ marriages. All we used to hear about was that ‘special’ feeling called love. That is where it was initiated.

Let us to jump to the present scenario. You watch any movie or some television series, a love story is an essential part, if there is none we feel that something was missing. . You hear some friend of yours about falling in love, and how good it feels. You listen to those romantic tracks and you feel you have felt the same. You open any social networking site, you will see someone or the other talking about ‘love’. Even in news, you hear about those big shots falling in love. I guess you can see how the mind is conditioned.

I ‘m sorry to break the flow but a question arises, if this so called ‘love’ is that special, how come it happens to almost everyone? Now don’t let your innocent mind counter this with, No! Mine is real, i can feel it, we have a ‘connection’. Trust me, i have seen and I‘ve been in infinite scenarios, each and every one more special than the other, but sadly they were just permutations of how your mind gets befooled.
Now just look at the trend, our mind has subconsciously established that we are supposed to be in love, now we meet someone who has similar or may be even different interests (keeping in mind that opposites attract scenario), we talk and we bond very well, we are taken care of and we feel good, we experience new feelings and we feel we have our ‘someone special’. I can quote a million examples about those miracles that happen or those ‘coincidences’ which are assumed to be destiny or how special and by chance it was that you guys met(you can think about yours but don’t get too sentimental and flow away).

If that chemistry was the reason aren’t there people of the same sex who bond well with you. We don’t tell them we are in love with them and will like to spend our lives with them (ignoring sec377 of the Indian constitution). It is because we have never seen that happening, we don’t find it normal as our mind was not conditioned that way.

I’m sorry for being the bad news bearer but eh.. love doesn’t exists, its just your mind is conditioned that way. Your mind gets weak you look for support, you find that person and bang! You believe you are in love. Even scientifically it is proven that a hormone is excreted at a particular time and we call that hormone love (technically oxytocin).

I’m not concluding that there is anything wrong with it, even oxytocin can cure many human ailments (don’t call that magic, there’s a reason behind it, which you can find in some medical journal) but I’ll tell you to keep your mind aware of this and you’ll b able to avoid many confusions. Relationships are not bad, till the time they make you feel good, there is no harm.

One last thing , if i tell you that i love you , it will be by far an understatement, Hey! now don’t let your mind hover the other way else the conditioning that it went through will all be futile.
peace out!

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

existence of evil ???

With this one i am aiming at your roots . It is going to change the very base of your thinking . This time the genre is philosophy. Now, i propose a question in front of you , do you believe in the existence of evil ? or do you believe that anyone in general has any evil intentions ? if your ‘obvious’ answer is yes , u ‘re in for a shock .
i ‘ll cheerfully disclose to you that, no, no one is having any evil intentions . Each and evry person is good at heart , at times he may be biased but overall his intentions cannot be questioned. Sometimes we are far away from our consciousness and we move towards a wrong side, but again it’s just a temporary phase. Sooner or later the consciousness kicks in , and the phase passes. From our childhood we were taught, about the two kinds – ‘good’ and the ‘bad’.
Initially, It was all a mechanism to protect you but even as you were growing up , nobody took the pain of bursting that bubble for you , hence you turned out stereotyping each and every individual, as good or bad . The moment we come in contact with someone, the rational wheels in our head start rotating , the process of analysis begins , which sadly ruins it all . We create an image which is devastating in either of the situations. If we consider that person among the ‘good’ one’s and then that person doesn’t lives up to our expectations, we feel shattered. On the other side , if he was in the ‘not so good’ group , the case is closed and you have lost the opportunity of knowing that person, the way he is.
The worst part is that we ‘re so naive, sometimes by just one look at that person and we believe that we have dissected his personality . We have to broaden our horizons , we have to go beyond the face value and give that person a chance to evolve , to open up and see the real person hidden behind that embossed ‘first impression’ . The old saying ‘first impression is the last impression’ is not worth a squat, on the contrary the first time we meet someone, we are closed and we attempt to create an impression and funnily it backfires !
We have to curb the temptation of falling for individuality of a person , we are not realising that it is all temporary and with time, it is bound to change. To make your life a better one, stop making that ‘image’ of a person . Each day is a new one , and it ‘ll be great if each day you take that person to be a new one.
p.s. i have taken the gender of the person to be male , any kinds of chauvinism or inequality was not intended.peace.

Monday, April 26, 2010

the better team didn't win !

The glamorous night of april 25 , 2010 , the final of DLF IPL season 3, an exciting match between between two epic teams , the 'mumbai indians' and the 'chennai super kings' . Well, for you it might be that way, for me it was just another dreaded night , the night before my final semester exams ! in-spite of that i was able to catch up on quite a bit of it . Though now i regret it, as studying might have been a better option at least would have fetched me a few marks , now i'm just left with hard feelings for 'dhoni'. i am getting a feeling of nausea while admitting this but still i 'll have to admit that chennai super kings were the better team last night . But that said i will not rule out the possibility that this match, like many others could have been fixed ! now stop raising your eyebrows , just kidding and c'mon IPL deserves at least this much of flak because of the famous (or should i call the infamous) Mr. Lalit Modi . I have also heard that 'dhoni' was using a pandit , , i thought these guys were promoting fair play ! i am also doubtful that many of there players are under steroids, especially 'hayden' , only mammoths look that way ( ways ,its ironic that a mammoth is playing with a mongoose bat ! ).I tried mailing ICC for conducting a dope test but till now they 're not taking me seriously (next time i 'll address myself as Mr. Barack Obama,then we 'll see, after all that 'dude' commands some credibility) i guess by now i have expressed my disappointment on chennai winning the 'not so coveted trophy'. Ignoring this, if we ananlyse this tournament ,surprisingly it was not a total disappointment. As the highest run scorer was the 'god of cricket' ,the greatest of all - Sachin R. Tendulkar . Also the top 3 teams were having Indian Captains .Well, these facts do bring a smile !
Now for the few Chennai supporters who will be criticising this to the core , well beat it losers , it was just a fluke that 'Chennai' won and don't get any excited you are not getting anything . Wayz why were you supporting 'Chennai' in the first place , who on this face of earth will go for 'dhoni' over 'Tendulkar' . even if you were born in 'Chennai' you were an Indian first , i will any day support Mumbai over Punjab though i have no links with mumbai whatsoever but there 's that respect for 'tendulkar' . How can you completely ignore how many great moments that man has given to our country. anyways its over now ! But wait, a better one starts, now just wait and watch what happens of Mr. Lalit Modi (this one's far from over) It will be a real lot fun witnessing Mr. Modi give all his funny excuses and dramatic statements . i bet we all are going to enjoy that . amen !

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

dr. tharoor's fiasco

Dr. Shahshi Tharoor , one of the rare indian politician who was able to gain my respect . The man we 're talking about has faced politics at the highest level. He was deputy secretary general of the UN under Mr. Kofi Anan , and then he contested for the post of secretary general against Mr. Banki Mohan. This proves the mettle of that man and it shows that this guy has an idea about what he 's doing. This is just an introduction about Dr. tharoor , i can make this blog about his achievements but its moreover about the injustice against him . Its a sad day for the country if a person of his caliber has to resign , these are the kind of people who make a difference at the top . The charges that are laid against him by the opposition are not even proved but he was forced to resign by the congress just to maintain there 'reputation' . Congress would have got my vote if they would have stood up for their man , but these good for nothing sociopaths are too coward to support him . I agree that corruption is the one of the principal reasons for the relatively slow growth of this country but there were better ways to handle this situation . If it was about the corruption, what about those highly placed people who have swallowed infinite wealth without any hard work and 're living comfortably, for starters i can float a few names like mayawati , laloo prasad yadav ( we all know what they 're famous for ! ) and this is just the tip of the ice berg . The only problem with Dr. Tharoor is that he is 'diplomatically' incorrect , if you ask me its not that much of a problem as much as it is an attribute , even his tweets were candid enough, the way they should be and it is being lumpish to create a controversy over it . i feel disgusted at these blatant actions of our government and this increases my hatred towards indian politics ..